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Man pradeda pabosti girdimos replikos, kad aš visur matau tik neigiamus dalykus, ir paklausius manęs, apskritai nėra nieko gero pasaulyje. Pradžiai pasakysiu, kad tai - netiesa. Man patinka mane supantis pasaulis, aplinkiniai, o Lietuvą myliu kuo toliau - tuo labiau. Bet susimąsčiau, kodėl kitų akyse save piešiu būtent tokį negatyvų.

Ir vėlgi - remiuosi asmenine patirtimi. Man atrodo, kad prieštaravimai ir nenorėjimai su kuo nors sutikti verčia žmones domėtis, šviestis. Visų pirma dėl to, kad iš to kyla alternatyvios tiesos ieškojimas. Jeigu aš viskam pritarčiau, sakyčiau visur tik ‘taip’, aš žinočiau tik tiek, kiek aplink save pamatau. Bet kai sustabdai save ir pagalvoji ‘palaukit, gal viskas yra visai priešingai?’, pradedi domėtis būtent tuo klausimu, ieškoti informacijos, domėtis.
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Tas pats ir su diskusija. Diskusijos esmė nėra ta, kad iš dviejų oponuojančių nuomonių atsirenkama tai, kas teisingiausia, ir iš jų sulipdoma viena ’supernuomonė’. Diskusijos metu reikia tam tikrų žinių, taigi, jeigu aš kalbuosi su kuo nors, man jo argumentams atremti reikia kontraargumentų ir tuo pačiu informacijos tiems argumentams paremti.

Tuo metu pašnekovą ištinka tokia pati lemtis - jis turi ieškotis informacijos savo pozicijai išlaikyti. Ir kuo karštesnė diskusija vyksta, tuo savaime labiau artėjama prie bendros tiesos. I tą tiesą iš esmės ir veda iš pašnekovo gauta informacija, bet ne taip tiesiogiai, kaip gali pasirodyti. Greičiau žmogus pats savo išgalėmis artėja link jos pašnekovą naudodamas tik kaip įrankį savo tikslui.

Tačiau kartais oponentai paprasčiausiai nelinkę domėtis tuo, ką šneka aklai įsitikinę savo teisumu. Tokiu atveju kitas žmogus su ‘kontranuomone’ savaime lieka teisus, nes kaip sakiau - domėjimasis veda link tiesos. Bet ir šiuo atveju ta ‘kontranuomonė’ nebūtinai yra tiesa, tačiau oponentas tiesiog nesuteikė galimybės to sužinoti. Jeigu diskusija pasibaigia nė neprasidėjusi, tai atitinkamai ir žinių bagažas abiejose pusėse negali būti normaliai sukauptas.

Būtent iš šio vienpusio prieštaravimo dažnai tampu žmogumi, kuriam niekas nepatinka, visur viena neteisybė ir melas, bet drąsiai galiu teigti - tokiose situacijose aš visada lieku teisus. Tačiau, kad ir kaip mėgstu būti teisiu(ar ‘teisus’?), nuoširdžiai labai nemėgstu tokių pašnekesiu. Vien dėl to, kad iš jų neįmanoma nieko išmokti. O kitu atveju niekada nebaisu pasakyti, kad buvau neteisus, nes nuo pat to momento konkrečiu klausimu aš tampu teisus - žinau kaip yra iš tikro. To galiu palinkėti ir Jums - ieškokite tiesos ir gyvenime klysite daug mažiau :)

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